see how Olayode Juliana popularly known as Toyo Baby lost her pride
Actress Toyo Baby confesses-How I
gave my virginity to my married music teacher
Nollywood
actress and a popular face in Funke Akindele Bello’s comic series, ‘Jenifer’s
Diaries’,Olayode Juliana, popularly known as Toyo Baby has revealed how she lost
her virginity to a married man at the age of 17.
The popular
comic actress revealed this in a book she entitled ‘’Rebirth’’.
She stated
in her book, ‘’The day finally came. He wanted to move the date because he was
expecting some money that he wanted to use to pay for a good hotel, but moving
it would mean my mum back from church.
‘’So, he
booked for a cheap hotel. I still remember the smell of cigarette that filled
the room. I never liked the smell of cigarette and alcohol; I still do.
‘’We had to
wait at the reception for the room to be cleaned and aired.
‘’So, we
went back into the room, and it happened. It was a painful experience for me.
‘’I cried so
many times and he kept apologizing, begging me to keep my voice down or they
would think he was raping me. He told me to relax and consume the pain.
‘’In his
words, ‘do not be a weak woman’. That got at me because I hated feeling or
being treated as weak.
‘’I asked
for a break. He rode on some more and tried again until he finally got through.
It was anything like he had told me it would be.
‘’I saw no
clouds, I made no sounds, I felt nothing special. It was really painful all the
way, but it was fully known that he was satisfied.
‘’when he
finally accomplished his mission, I checked the bed for blood. I screamed!
There was no blood! He told me that not all virgins saw blood.
‘’I was so
confused, but chose to believe him. Soon after, he dozed off, and I was there
crying.
‘’Why didn’t
I see blood? Even if not all virgins see blood, why should I be on that list?
How would I tell the story of losing my virginity without blood? Who would
actually believe me that I was actually a virgin?’’
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